Transform Breakups into Powerful Breakthroughs
Evidence-based coaching to break old patterns, turn heartbreak into confidence, and rewrite your love story
You deserve a love that feels peaceful, not painful
I help smart, high achieving singles who are tired of pouring time and energy into the wrong people. I don’t just help you to recover from past painful breakups- I show you how to use them as a launch pad for something even greater. I combine real-life experience with clinical training to help you understand the root of your patterns, heal what’s underneath, and build the kind of love and self-trust that actually lasts.
No jargon, no empty pep talks- just clear, honest guidance to help you make connections with confidence and never look back.
This free 3-part guide will give you the tools you need to stop idealizing them, get clarity on what happened, and set the stage for creating connections that you love.
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”Every day, they strive to improve their service to the clients by developing the right blend of technology and creativity to make sure every job done is done as efficiently as possible.”
- Clarice Turner
”Every day, they strive to improve their service to the clients by developing the right blend of technology and creativity to make sure every job done is done as efficiently as possible.”
- Clarice Turner
Real Talk-
Does This Sound Like You?
You’re successful by all measures, but you always end up with someone who doesn't fully appreciate you or realize what they have
Your love life feels compartmentalized- you don’t share who you’re seeing with friends or family (or if you do, it never goes well).
You do your best to help the people you date, but they don't put in equal effort or give you any recognition
You've had more than one relationship that started amazing but ended badly, even though you did your best
You've done so much work on yourself but you're just not connecting with anyone who matches your dedication
If this sounds like you, you're not alone. What no one talks about is that even the people who hurt us speak to something inside us- and I want to help you master those patterns to create something even better than you can imagine.
Why I Do This Work
My own journey began with a breakup that sent shockwaves through my life. I was young, successful, freshly graduated with my master's degree from Columbia, and was starting my career as a therapist. On paper,I should have had it all figured out...but I didn't.
The relationship that once made me feel alive had done a complete 180. By the end I felt so bad about myself I couldn't work up the courage to even post a simple selfie. While he was out traveling the word and dating freely, I was stuck at home wondering what was wrong with me and how i got to this point. Well meaning friends told me he didn't matter but that just made me feel worse for caring, and I bottled it all up inside.
One day, I realized I had a choice: I could keep letting someone else's opinion of me define my worth, or I could choose myself. When I chose myself first that was the catalyst for a transformation I could never have imagined.
Since then, I've:
Changed my career
Lived out of a suitcase for 2 years, traveling the world
Worked through a lot of anxiety and chronic hives
Built deep friendships around the world
Learned to trust myself first and confidently walk away from what's not right for me
Talking about relationship struggles is hard, especially if people think you should have it all "together". I create a safe, judgment-free space where we can explore together the root of what got you here so we can make a practical plan to turn it all around. I'll be by your side every step of the way.
Killing Cupid transformed my breakup into a journey of self-discovery. The practical tools and insights helped me rebuild my confidence and find love again.
★★★★★
Frequently Asked Questions
What Does Your Coaching Process Look Like?
We’ll start off with an introductory call so we can decide on your goals and set your intentions for our time together. Once we have that nailed down, we’ll start the program together. Every week we’ll have a one hour session together, and you’ll use the rest of the week to complete the exercises. I’ll be available to support you via email in between sessions.
How is your coaching different from therapy?
Therapy is the open-ended treatment of mental health conditions and emotional issues and is primarily focused on healing and introspection. As a coach, I am here to help you achieve your goals through tangible solutions. While I am a licensed therapist, and due to the nature of the work we will be doing, it is only natural that we will have discussions around emotions. My focus is on helping you understand your blocks and making a plan and offering support to move through them.
What are your qualifications?
I have been a licensed therapist since 2014, I have my MSW from Columbia University with a focus in advanced clinical practice. I have worked in private practice and community health clinics, as well as helping hundreds of clients heal and improve their relationship patterns through coaching over the years.
Do I need coaching if I’m already seeing a therapist?
Yes, you can absolutely combine therapy and coaching. In fact, it's recommended for maximum impact! Working through a coaching program can bring in new insights that a therapist will be able to provide in depth support for.
How long do I need to see results?
That depends on your goals and commitment to the program. My programs are designed to give you practical, actionable tools that you can start using right away, but they only work if you are committed to consistently implementing them.
Do you offer any free resources or consultations?
Yes! In fact, before we start working together I always have a free consultation to see if we are the right fit. You can read my blog or follow me on quora for updates and more information about the work I do. If you have any questions you are also always welcome to email me directly (nobody reads my emails but me).
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